Mobiles come with new things for parents to worry about – namely Internet safety, theft, bullying and who your kids are chatting to without supervision (never mind why their phone runs out of credit faster than you can top it up and always goes to voicemail when you really need to talk to them).
Now smartphones have upped the ante considerably. They’re essentially handheld computers, so worries about your child stumbling across pornographic or violent content, or being groomed in chatrooms, on their computer now apply equally to their phone. No matter how clued up you are about internet safety on your home computer, you need to get similarly clued up about your child’s phone if you want to keep them safe in the cyber-world.
Mobile phones: parents’ checklist
First, you need to decide whether you want your child to use Pay As You Go or whether you’d rather sign up for a contract so that you receive an itemised monthly bill. The latter may well be a better option for younger children.
And then make sure you know the answers to the following questions:
Does the phone have Internet access?
All UK mobile phone companies have to provide an Internet filter on their phones to help block potentially harmful stuff like pornography. But – and this is the important bit for parents – most operators don’t activate the filter unless you ask them to.
Is Bluetooth enabled?
Bluetooth enables your child’s mobile phone to find and talk to other Bluetooth-enabled mobile phones in the vicinity. If it’s activated, it means your child could receive unexpected and unwanted messages, and any personal information stored on your child’s phone â€“ for example, their contact list – could be vulnerable. Switching off the Bluetooth option makes the phone ‘invisible’ to other Bluetooth users.
Is the phone registered for a child or adult user?
If the phone is registered to a child user, it will automatically not be able to access content rated 18+. But if your child has a phone that has been passed down to them from you or another adult, no such block will be in place. Brave the piped music and endless wait and talk to your mobile phone operator to find out if the Internet filter is activated.
Check whether parental controls are set as default on your child’s mobile â€“ if not, ask for them to be switched on.
Can the phone access chat rooms, or games where users chat to one another?
Are these moderated? Chat rooms provided by your child’s mobile operator or its partners which do not have 18+ age-restrictions must be moderated. Find out about the operator’s moderation policies and systems. Be aware that chat rooms accessed on the internet via your child’s mobile (ie which are not provided by the mobile operator or its partners) may not be moderated.